Monthly Archives: May 2012

RELATIONSHIP VITAL

Give to doses to your Partner

MORNING DOSE –  ” I Love You ”

AFTERNOON DOSE – ” You are Beautiful ”

EVENING DOSE – ” You attract Me ”

NIGHT DOSE – ”  Hug and a Kiss ”

You can take other supplements with these doses

SIDE EFFECTS – ‘ envoy of others ‘

PRECAUTIONS – ‘ Give the doses with smile ‘

RESULTS – ‘ Powerful healthy relationship ‘

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ATTACHMENT STYLES

ATTACHMENT IS A SPECIAL EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP THAT INVOLVES AN EXCHANGE OF COMFORT , CARE AND PLEASURE…

SECURE ATTACHMENT ( low avoidance , low anxiety ) – If you relate positively to others and yourself , you probably have a secure attachment style. Secure attached people are generally happy in their relationships , feeling that they and others are sensitive and responsible to each other. they sense that connection can provide comfort and relief in times of need. They also feel that they are good, loved, and accepted and competent people.

PREOCCUPIED ATTACHMENT (low avoidance , high anxiety ) – If you are always worried about what others think of you and don’t really factor in your thoughts and feelings , this type of attachment most likely fits you. One feels a powerful need to be close to others , and they show this by clinging. They need a lot of validation and approval. They are concerned that others don’t value them. They also doubt their own worth in relationships ; so they often worry a lot about their relationships.

DISMISSING – AVOIDANCE STYLE ( high avoidance , low anxiety ) – Although the need of connection is biologically wired in people , those with this style of attachment deny it . They like to see themselves as independent and self- sufficient and they minimize the importance of relationship.To keep their relationship important , they suppress or hide their feelings. they also often think of other people less positively than they think of themselves. When faced with rejection they  cope with it by distancing themselves.

FEARFUL – AVOIDANCE STYLE (high avoidance , high anxiety ) – people with this style of attachment often think of themselves as flawed , dependent and helpless. and they think they are not worthy of loving or caring responses from their partners. They don’t trust that others see them positively, and they expect to get hurt. Although they want to be close to others they also fear it. They often avoid intimacy and suppress their feelings.

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7 Food Blogs to Follow This Summer

FOOD IS VERY THERAPEUTIC IN EVERY SENSE , WHETHER YOU COOK OR YOU EAT.RESEARCHES HAVE ALSO EXPLAINED HOW THE TASTES AND AROMAS OF DIFFERENT FOODS CAN EFFECT YOUR HORMONES.
SO NOW WHEN YOU ARE EATING OR COOKING JUST DO IT ACTIVELY AND ATTENTIVELY … ENJOY YOUR MEALS 🙂

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With the official first day of summer right around the corner, now is a great time to start collecting recipes for your favorite warm-weather treats.

You’ll find endless inspiration by browsing through topics like recipe, grilling, and summer in the WordPress.com Reader, and discover tons of great ideas by exploring our collection of recommended food blogs.

Here are seven mouthwatering recipes from a handful of fantastic blogs that are sure to delight all summer long:

The Patterned Plate


We Call Him Yes! Chef!


The Faux Martha


In Pursuit of More


Just Homemade


Love + Cupcakes


The Craving Chronicles

Do you have an all-time favorite summer recipe? What new recipes do you hope to try out this season?

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ATTACHMENT STYLES

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Do you sear more often than you want ? Think about it ! why ?????

Read ahead ….. why do i sear ??? is it because its a …..

  1. PAIN RELIEF ? Do you feel relaxed after swearing ? Swearing activates the so called fight or flight response, leading to a surge of adrenalin and a corresponding analgesic effect.
  2. POWER AND CONTROL – Does swearing gives you a greater sense of power and control over a bad situation ? by swearing we show (just to over-selves ) that we are not passive victims but powered to react and fight back.
  3. NON-VIOLENT RETRIBUTION – Swearing enable us to get back at bad people or situation without having to resort to violence.
  4. HUMOR – Swearing among friends can be quite hilarious.
  5. PEER AND SOCIAL BONDING – Swearing can serve to show that we belong in a…

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RELATION SUPPLEMENTS -R U Taking Medication for UR Relationship ???

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Do you sear more often than you want ? Think about it ! why ?????

Read ahead ….. why do i sear ??? is it because its a …..

  1. PAIN RELIEF ? Do you feel relaxed after swearing ? Swearing activates the so called fight or flight response, leading to a surge of adrenalin and a corresponding analgesic effect.
  2. POWER AND CONTROL – Does swearing gives you a greater sense of power and control over a bad situation ? by swearing we show (just to over-selves ) that we are not passive victims but powered to react and fight back.
  3. NON-VIOLENT RETRIBUTION – Swearing enable us to get back at bad people or situation without having to resort to violence.
  4. HUMOR – Swearing among friends can be quite hilarious.
  5. PEER AND SOCIAL BONDING – Swearing can serve to show that we belong in a…

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DO YOU SWEAR ??? WHY !!!!

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Do you sear more often than you want ? Think about it ! why ?????

Read ahead ….. why do i sear ??? is it because its a …..

  1. PAIN RELIEF ? Do you feel relaxed after swearing ? Swearing activates the so called fight or flight response, leading to a surge of adrenalin and a corresponding analgesic effect.
  2. POWER AND CONTROL – Does swearing gives you a greater sense of power and control over a bad situation ? by swearing we show (just to over-selves ) that we are not passive victims but powered to react and fight back.
  3. NON-VIOLENT RETRIBUTION – Swearing enable us to get back at bad people or situation without having to resort to violence.
  4. HUMOR – Swearing among friends can be quite hilarious.
  5. PEER AND SOCIAL BONDING – Swearing can serve to show that we belong in a certain group , or that we are able to be over selves and so wholly comfortable with the members of that group.
  6. SELF- EXPRESSION – Swearing can be a way of showing that we really mean something ( putting emphasis).

7.   PSYCHOLOGICAL AND PHYSICAL REASONS – Swearing results in increases circulation , elevated endorphins and overall sense of calmness .

 

***** This article is not to promote swearing but just an effort to understand the reasons why do humans of every culture , country , region swear . If you can think of any other good reason , please add them in the comment section . *****

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BIRTHDAY PARTY

How many birthday’s of your life do you remember ?

And how many of them as your great birthday’s.

If we talk about the great birthday’s ; which one’s those were- 3rd …. 5th … 10th… 15th… 35th..?????

I really wish i could get the instant reply’s . what made me write this was m y son’s excitement of on his 5th birthday; his great memories of 3rd birthday.

It was a great experience seeing him so unconditionally and unnaturally happy for the day he was born. probably i felt it unnatural as the excitement of our birthday’s by this age has faded away somewhere. but why ?

Why cant we be similarly exited as we use to be on our 4th … 10th & 13th.. birthday.

Probably because we understand the permanency of the life & death cycle, or we simply become use to of ‘THE DAY’.

NO, this is simply not done. At times we must forget certain ( Real ) thing about life & get lost in the fairy world. At times at least we must pamper the child in us & feel the excitement of our birthday party , gifts, cards , cakes , Pranks & games.

YES, change is the only permanent things in life, but don’t allow this to change THE NATURAL YOU ( at least at time).

 

 

 

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